Sunday, December 21, 2008
Stress interview...
have you ever been to a stress interview?
wel, recently i attended a stress interview..
not a typical, normal stress interview..
a very differnt kind of stress interview..
about which i have never heard..
Wel that interview was a part of a contest..
" the best manager contest"
it was a management event..
it was conducted by kannur university,
part of Techinova '08..
wel that was the name of the whole program..
Now about the contest.
There were actually three rounds..
1. Group discussion
2.Toggle
3.The stress interview
Group Discussion
the topic given to us was "is there any need of Employee Union in IT firms?"
most of us supported the point.
wel, actually it was my secong GD.
in the first gd I couldnt perform well.
and i failed miserably.
Wel in this GD also i didnt have very high expectation;
'coz i was participating against one of the bests in our college.
But to my surprise and to the surprise of all others..
I topped the GD.
the judges gave me very good comments..
wel such a situation is first of its kind as far as i was concerned.
The judges said that they have selected me because of the strong points of mine.
i wonder what all were the strong points?!!
Toggle
It was an intersting round.
they gave us two photos.
they will toggle the photos and we have to talk about the object or subject in the photo
as long as they were on the screen.
i got the photos of Aiswarya rai and that of a snake.
and the time given to us was 10 mins.
some how i managed and completed the contest.
the other figures were dosai&burger; lady with a guitar and money; small hut & a sky scraper etc.
Stress Interview
Here comes the most important and much awaited stress interview.
we were all dressed in a very executive manner so as to match the standards of the interview.
before the interview we were given a questionnare to fill up.
some of the questions were
what is your dirty name?
what is your opinion about homosexulaty?
what do you think about prostitues?
after marriage if your wife tells you about her experience of sex with other guy what will you do?
what will be your reaction if your wife gets pregnant in th efirst night?
i dont know from where they got these kindaa questions??!!!
the time for the interview came.
as i was the topper in the GD i was called for the interview first.
some of the organisors called me and i went with them.
they led me to a room where lots of make up items were kept.
i wondered why all these things were kept there.
suddenly they started applying make up on me..
i got surprised and i protested them first.
and then i came to know that it was also a part of the interview..
Oh man.. i never knew this..
and do you know what was the make over waited for me that day..
LUTTAAPPY...
all the Keralites are familiar with this comic character.
i appreciate their creativity, 'coz the ideas came to their mind during the make up were 'awesome'.
they were in kind of ragging mood. wel they were all students.. may be of my age.
this was the make over that they given to me!!!!!!!!!
well after that i was told to run through the crowd.
wel the crowd cosistst mainly of girls.
i dont know from where i got the courage.
i did it and reached the stage.
and jugdes started asking me questions..
i have to answer their questions in that dressing..
what a stress interview!!!
the questions were mostly from the questionnare that we filled up.
i answered their questions as i can.
Situation round
this was the second round of stress interview.
we were given a situation.
we have to convey it to the audience s well as the judges.
and after that we have to suggest a solution to the situation.
i got this situation
" you have fired from an IT firm without notice and you are the only support of your family"
wel i described it to the audience and solved it.
thus my stress interview was over.
After all that was a nice experience.
in the usual case i would never go to a stage escpecially with that kinda costumes and perform.
even in front of small audience i will shiever with fear.
with that experience i thing my stage frieght has lost and i am much much more confident of myself.
thank you everyone for giving me such a wonderful opportunity..
"do the things that you fear to do.. "
" in life most of the great things are achieved if we do the things that we fear to do"
Friday, November 28, 2008
my first accident !!!
it will struck a5t anytime, to anyone, and anywhere..
so far i 've a personal pride that even i ride at an average speed of 60km/hr. nothin happened me so far.. but today everything came to an end..
today my uncle forgot something on his bike when he was hurrying for the train..
he called me and told me to take it ..
as it was put there publically i went to the spot immediately- on one of ma relative's bike..
as usual a bit rash driving..
i reached the place and did what i ,ve to do.. and came back..
on my way back to home it all happened..
from the long distance itself i saw two children playing..
so iwas careful.. spped was very low from my usuals..
i was about to cross the children..
suddenly a boy crossed the road.. it was all off a sudden and i wasn't expecting it at the least..
i changed the direction ,applied the brake.. something happened..
i was sure that the boy was hit..
i slided 1 or 2 meters through the road with my bike..
bike was over my leg and the back wheel was still rotating with a 'dirty sound'...
from the thin air, from no where people gathered..
i don't know from where did they come actually..
well the funny thing is that no one actually helped me.. every one wanted to know what happened..!!!
i pushed the bike up and turned the key inti 'off' position..
and went to look the kid,..
he waas disappeared..!!!
well then only i could breathe normally..
'cos nothing happened to the boy..
i saw that the mirror hit the boy..
i found out the boy and saw some very thin red lines on his cheeks..
nothing more happened to him..
and it seemed that he was not at all consider about it..
also noone blamed me.. 'cos everyone knew that it wasnt my fault actually..
well it my luck or may be the boy's.. nothing happened to him..
if anything happened to him.. i cant even imagine my life..
i'm very sensible..i 'll be in depression for a very long time..!!
oh my gooooodness.....!!!!
then i came back to my bike..
oh my dear bike!! anything happened to you???
it has a crash guard!!
it was a bit tilted.. some scratches on the headlight section and on the foot peg..
and some oil came out...
that it..
oh god.. thanks..
well now about myself..
blood was there on my left hand
and on the rigth hand but not that much..
and my knee was also burning..
after the inspection i saw some scratches on both knees..
i washed the affected parts.. well no one helped me on that occassion also..
and came back.. then the dutyful people started their usual job..' TheEnquiry'..
i described all the events happened ..
and tried starting my bike..
thank god. on the second attempt it started..
i put it in the first gear.. no problem..
and back to home.. butnot like the usual way..
a bit more careful driving with a low number on the speedometer dial...
reached home..
father was not at home..thank god once again..
el i cant describe all these things to father..
i called ma brother and told everything..
then came mother..i thought for a while.."should i tell or wat??"
then i told her..
blamed my time, the planets etc..
and applied some medicines and dressed the wounds..
and i was back to work..
as i 've nothing to do.. sat in front of the computer and started orkuting and blogging..
and i 've decided to learn something from my experiences..
so after this my riding will be careful..(who knows how long will it go?? until i get a 150cc or above)
and will be more careful when i see some children playing...
Saturday, November 22, 2008
CAT [ Common Admission Test ]
That's really a great experience to me.
great exam.
kick me to death!
and "Calicut'[Kozhikode] was the only centre in Kerala.
so called 'CAT aspirants'.
CAT along with me. in fact they are my roomies also..]
one day before the 'D-day',
and various shopping malls.!!
Well leave those silly things.
and reached the test centre
by 9.35
and found out the class room.
in their assigned positions.
Me too took my seat
But everyone was inside the class room,
searched for somebody..
you know it might be for girls..what else!!!
A girl came in and occupied the seat..
THANK GOD..
may be a 'serious CAT aspirant!!'
then to reach our hands..
and gave a series of instructions to fill it.
for something interesting somewhere..
'YOU MAY LEAVE NOW'".
-- 2and a half hours..
3 sections- 25,25,40 questions on each section.
better known among students as quanti seciton..
those questions that i left behind.
CAT exam experience....
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
MY FRIEND....
" when i am alone , i'm all alone..
no one is there to share with me, no one is there for me to talk.
but people around me are all enjoying themselves with their girlfriends or better say their lady love through the privilege that they got from the lavish offers put forward by some mobile companies which are specifically designed for such people..
i too have mobile, i too have offers, i too have money to recharge..
but!! but i'm lacking one thing.. the GF..
i'm best friend friend of some, good friend of many and have lots of other acquaintance.
i understand them, i lend my ears to their problems and console them, solve their problem....
but..but...who is there for me??
in a way i have friends..good friends and best friends.
but not the kind that i wanted..
i want or i need a friend who can understand me, who care for me, to whom i can tell everything..
being a boy what i wanted is ofcourse a girl friend with all these qualifications..
sometimes when the feeling of loneliness creeps in i do wanted to talk to someone, i do want to share my feelings..
as i desperately failed to express myself, i searched for some other means..
and thus decided to give my problems a textual 'incarnation'..
i approached my all time companion..my mobile..
started typing a long message..and pushed my linguistic skills to its limit.. and the message character limit as well..
now i want to share my feelings.. so i have to send it to someone..!!
but to whom should i send it??!!
the answer is still " NO ONE ".. i realised with small pain my mind..
then i started to think of a friend who is like GOD...
GOD.. to whom we can say anything and everything.. will be there always to hear everything that we say without a single word against us..
and who bless us with all kind of positive things if our belief is also positive..
can i find a friend like him????
may be No..
then why don't i make GOD as my friend.. a thought flashed through my mind..
yes.. he is my best and dearest friend from now onwards..
a friend and guardian for all who don't have no one to share , to hear and to support..
God is great..!!! "
I closed his diary..."sorry dear bro to read your diary withoout permission..and i ll try to be ur best friend..God please give me all your abilities"..
Non-orphans...
[its jus a 'new word' i accidently created..(pls forgive me if u dont like it)]
these are people alone in the crowd..
the people who have everyone..
father, mother , brother, acquintance...
but no one to care them actually...
they may be surrounded by a number of friends..
but not a single friend cant understand his/her feeelings..
or if he/she has a good friend..
but the friend is busy with his/her life..
so these fellows wont get much attention even from their good friends..
to whom they express their feeling????
no one is there actually..
if someone is there, then no one is actually interested in others problems..
well people are busy with their own problems..
then how can they spend time on other people's problem??!!!
the number of such people are increasing i feel..
so what we can do if we knew such people or if we come across such people??
we need to give them support..
we must be very good friend at least to our friends..
because it is the very basic level..
friendship must be unconditional...
whatever be the situation.. wherever be the problem.. we must be with our friends..
we must try to understand them..
we must pay attention to their even silly problems..
we must be very caring...
so learn the goodness of friendship..
be a good friend..get good friends..
without friends, life in this word is unthinkable..
Friday, November 7, 2008
infatuation....
its new word added to my active vocabulary. i came across this new word only recently.. may be around one year back..
well to me its the next great thing after love.
we fell in infatuation more than once in our life time..
and it is definetely different from love.. coz we need to be sincere in love..
but as far as infatuation is concerned we got all the freedom.. still we have a great feeling with us..
even the feeling that goes with infatuation is great.. then what will be the case with real sincere love..
so infatuation is the basic step or basic qualification to love or to be loved..
infatuation is safe..it lacks constraints..its as great as love..
so if you are carefree.. dont want to take responsibilities of real love.. Infatuation is the feeling for you...
Friday, September 19, 2008
love.. love .. love..its my love..
love!!!!..... yes indeed a wonderful feeling.............
unless it is a failure.....
the moment you express your feeling to her...
the moment that you want to cherish
all your life time.............
unless its a failure....
the words that came from your heart
to express your feeling towards her....
the last minutes before you express ur love...
with full of tension..the same last moment
when ur mouth went dry...
ran out of words....
and at last you got the courage from all the world....
and the first word that came from your heart....
then the expression on her face....
the perplexity on her face...
the silence on her part...
the flow of words from ur heart
after the first inhibition....
everything is a nice
or the nicest of all feeling in the world
unless its a failure....
the nostalgic feeling
when u see the same old narrow path
where you got your life...
a lifetime achievement....
the time u both spent together..
the silly topics you discussed together...
.the silly topics u both quarrel with each other...
the first gift that u gave...
the unnamed expression on her eyes....
eagerly waited for the day to be shown up..
her b'day..to give her a present...
and a the card with full of words from ur heart...
another day that u waited..feb 14...
the rigth day to show her ur feeling...
thru a costly card..and a freshly bought rose..
the world wide accepted symbol of love....
the days ...nights..dreams..daydreams..
.everything is as precious as her....
the boring classes in which you thougth about her....
the films that u both watch togethrer...
the parks..beaches..ways..subways..corridors...
everything is as sweet as her...
love ur lover...love to love ur lover....
love...
yes yes...indeed a beautiful..wonderful...feeling.............
indulge in love........live love..love love.......
Monday, September 15, 2008
ideas to contribute to the browser war..!!
Friday, September 12, 2008
what I need from a new browser..
Saturday, June 14, 2008
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