'An Education' - 2

From the standard one itself , we know that the brightest students of the class are the guys who scores the maximum marks in the examination. And others are entitled as not so bright, dim , zero watt bulbs. And the teachers give their 'premium' attention to the 'bright side'. Yes, we all needs the successful ones, that is a fact, but are the other guys a failure??! No, NEVER.

Scoring high marks in the examination is all about interst and memory. If we are interested in doing something, then we are likely to do the things with our full heart and we are likely to get great results too..It is the same with studies too. But during our school life or college life we are interested in everything except studies. So scoring high marks left with only one option and that is memory.

So the ability to retain  things  in your memory plays a crucial role in our education and of course in our life too. The ability to hold things in your short term memory during the examination time decides your marks and thus the brightness of your academics.
I personally know this, because I passed most of my exams during my college by following the 'short term memory rule' and I am sure that I am not alone in this world and lacs and lacs of other people are along with me in this 'league of "extra-ordinary' men" ;)

And I came to know one more fact as the time passed by. All those information were 'permanently' stored in my short term memory so that after a 'long term' it was no longer available!! I attended a Tech - interview and  I had no clue of what the other guy was asking me!! ;)

So what is our whole education system about?
Is that an education??

'An Education' - 1

I am sure you must have heard these.. Bachelor of Technology or Master of Technology. Well, are they really masters of technology??! The answer can be something like 'may be' or 'may not be'. But nowadays one out of every ten persons we met at a town will be bachelor or ,aster of these so called technology, I assume; may be I am exaggerating. Their reasons to pursue this dream can be anything from dignity in society, security in finance, safety in job or may be simply following the flow. Now I am not into these reasons, but into 'An Education'

You know, it takes a complete four years to prepare some as a bachelor in Engineering. In order to pre-prepare for all these preparations, it will take a minimum of 12 years of Education!! So only after a continuous 16 years of education only someone is becoming an engineer. And what is the real product , that comes out, after these long manufacturing processes??! A good for nothing- who assumed to be knowing everything, but know nothing guy??! [ there are exceptions in everything in this world..  if there are more than 90% of exceptions or so.. I aaam soorrry for making such a statement ..]. I dont want to give you a generalization , but in most of the cases, a young graduate- professional or non-professional- coming directly out from a college is not job ready. He/she may or  may not know all the theories, but... where to apply, when to apply, how to apply..- no clues about all these "w-h" questions. People scoring high or above average marks do not mean that they have a superior knowledge. It just means that they knew the answers and at that moment of examination they clearly remembered it. [ I am not into malpractices, guys. 'coz here i 'd like to mention the casese of straight forward guys only.]

So what is our whole education system about??!!
Is that 'an education'???!!

(contd.. next week...)

Celebrations of Media

We are quite aware of the fact that the media like Television, News paper etc literally celebrate all major events. May be it some one's success, failure, gossips, and even death. These celebrations are their struggle for existence! The more they celebrate, the better they are doing their business. 

The celebration of success, achievement are always welcome. Because they are positive, they can inspire people and can do a lot of wonders in the society. But what about the other side??

Celebration of Death!!

Haven't you seen in television, the special programs and discussions on some celebrities death? We can argue that its is a part of paying tribute to that great personality. But isn't also a kind of celebration?

I am not against paying tribute to the great people who had done so much of great things to our society. But what made me think about all these things is one fact. 

When news flashes that some celebrity passed away, in the next time slot the TV people telecast special program on that person. These programs are all well edited and informative one,of course. Well, any one has some previous experience with video editing can tell that, it takes more than 1 minute, even for editing a 1 minute duration clip. So how are they doing all these things within a very short span of time?? Are they expecting all these things in advance and preparing these in advance or is it my mere ignorance on latest technology or am i underestimating the quick brilliant video editors?? 

If they are expecting someone's death and prepares a special programs to telecast on the 'D-day' in advance, what do we need to call it? Is it ethical or unethical? I have no answers for these. 

And it all became a part of our society, The celebrations..

[Here in this post, my intention was not to blame anyone. I was just sharing my opinion. Well everyone's wish is to gain some personal advantage. See how i am celebrating the celebration of death!!!]

An Ugly face of corruption

We are aware of the fact that our daily lives are greatly influenced and even manipulated by the interests of business world. In order to promote their product, in order to reach to the right audience, each and every organization tailor made their advertisement. Through advertisement they are exploiting our interests, love,anger, fear and whatever things you can name.So it is very clear that we have been exploited. If a product is something new and they cannot find a feeling to exploit, they may start to influence and manipulate our feeling by creating a brand new culture through advertising. It is a fact.

We know this fact and we are less resistant to this kind of things. Yeah, its okay to manipulate the way thing, but only to certain limits. What if the limit exceeds??

Everyone is familiar with Swine flue or H1N1 . Can you believe that it was a hoax??! It is true that there was such a disease. But the intensity and depth was a kind of product of fake advertisement.

Here is the story from www.your-story.org
"In yet another exposé of the financial corruption that is driving the H1N1 “pandemic” and pharmaceutical vaccine scam, a Finnish member of the World Health Organization Board, who also happens to be one of their key advisors on pharmaceutical vaccines, has allegedly received 6 million Euros from the vaccine manufacturer GlaxoSmithKline. Although the World Health Organization (WHO) promised full transparency, this conflict of interest has only recently been uncovered through much effort."

So the Global swine flue scare was a fabricated big scale advertisement of Pharmaceutical companies. Its also a story of shameful corruption. Can you believe that even the WHO people were involved in such a scam?! The very people who are responsible for the good health of people all around the globe are involved in such a case. Then how are we going to live in this world? 

Multi National Companies are even willing to kill people to promote their products !! Where is the human values?? Where is humanity? Everywhere we can find is only money and business!! Are we on the right path??! Are we destined to live our lives according to the way many business tycoons show us??

Google - Another Perspective.

    Most of the Netizens can't think of a day without Google. In one way or another, we are using some of the Google products on a daily basis. Right now we are using one! We all adore Google for its simplicity, speed, accuracy etc. And more importantly all its services are free! And so Google has become an integral part in our lives.

   Now Google has entered in most of the places in internet world- searching, social networking,mailing,videos,books, document management, advertisement and of course blogging and lots more. And through these years, they have accomplished great credibility. The credibility has reached to such an extend that, we take those things as granted that Google shows us through their various services. So nowadays Google has reached to a position that can potentially influence the way we think.

   If one day Google decides to spread something like 'Google culture' like MTV culture and all, we without knowing this, gradually adopt to this way of living. This is only a possibility. Because Google reaches to our lives in such a depth that it can even change our perceptions and vision.

  Google is entering into newer and newer arena on a rapid pace. And the interesting fact is that we always happy to accept all those new things. When it introduced a new browser in the midst of  four, five other browsers , we accepted it with our both hands. When they will introduce a new Operating System, we will accept it. Google chrome could break the monopoly of Internet Explorer. The new OS is also expected to do the same.

  Google also entered into a new world, into the world of Mobile phones, with Nexus. They already have their own Mobile phone Operating system Andria. And this new introduction is expected to break the monopoly of Apple iPhone and windows' Mobile OS. Thus in many way Google is breaking away all the old monopolies and on the same time building a new monopoly of their own!

 I t reminds me of Indian history! The way in which British East India company came to India! and the rest you can find in some history book. So Google is also capable of growing into a giant that can control the whole world. Lets hope that the people who lead Google are people of high values.

Love, Marriage and Religion

Again on the topic of Love ! Well, you see, people all over the world again and again, time after time celebrating this feeling, singing songs of  love and doing much more..Earlier days, they were talking,singing and writing about the so called "Eternal love". It is also known as true love and all. But as the time passed, as the world changed, as the pace of life shot up...a new tern, a new word was coined.." Practical love".

What actually is the practical love?
Well,people may put it roughly as thinking about all the pros and cons of the relationship, like caste,colour, religion, financial stability, job security and too many other things. But as in the case of ideal eternal love, if the lovers, no matter whatever problems they had, liked each other..they were going to fell in  love and eventually they would marry. But things have changed now. Many of the people, are not willing to take up the challenges and responsibility that come with the 'eternal love' package'. They are opting for a customized practical love package. [I may also like to order an package, i think ;) ]


Religion
One of the greatest deciding factor in love nowadays is religion i think.
But what actually it does? I feel, it limits our options.There are lots of girls around us. For a better calcualtion let it be 100 girls all around us.We will met only a 40 of them in our life time in the most or in the extreme case..whatever... We may, depending upon our beauty quotient and all, like a 25 girls.  As we are looking forward for a risk-free, no-responsibility practical love, we get to choose only 5 girls in our community. As we are again looking for financial security etc then we get 3 girls. After confirming the job security and all we get 1 girl...and at last that girl doesn't like  person!!! :) ;)  So at the end of the day you have nothing in hand. So we have to go for some other less lucrative options!!

Well this is a kind of exaggerated numbers and statistics, just for an illustrative purpose.

So the point is that, we are restricted... because of religion. The whole society is set up in that way. In the case of marriage, especially in arranged marriages, our parents will be choosing a match from their community only. We restrict ourself in falling in love with a girl in another religion!

Do we actually need all these religion and all??

But there is one thing... When there is true love, it out weights the practical one.. and its always a kind of blind..  to see religion and other hurdles..

So lets hope for true love...and a better world of course..

Love, Marriage and Responsibility.

Love... The most celebrated feeling...There won't be too many people who didnt jot a two or three lines, down about this wonderful feeling..this feeling gave wings to the expressions of the poets, novelists, artist, actors,and even to many bloggers..

 We know the ultimate goal of any true love is to be together forever, through the institution known as marriage.One day I was wondering about the changes of phases in a relationships and the responsibility factor.

I feel, we have to cross three phases before we finally land onto the successful 'marriage' institution through love. First one is the 'falling in love' or infatuation stage. Second one is, the stage when both started loving each other. And finally, marriage. So we can say the milestones as, initial meeting or something like that, proposal and marriage.

Infatuation stage:

According to me, this is the best of all phases. In this stage, one of the future couples- or both as in the case of love at first sight like things-starts to develop an interest towards the other person. In this phase, the one person may or may not know the other person's feeling. But there is a joy in dreaming of a boy or girl and to spend sleepless nights with his or her thoughts [ for the time being, i will use 'with her thoughts' etc., coz it is being written in a boy's perspective ;) ] Most importantly , in this phase we lack all kinds of responsibility. Thats is the very reason why I said that this is the best of all phases. By the word responsibility, I meant the general things such as meeting her by leaving all your works behind, spending time with her etc.. We need not have to bother about all these responsibilities, for the reason that we haven't yet started the relation. Everything is in our mind. 

But very interestingly we are completely, even 200% wiling to dedicate all our time for her. The more intense our feeling , the better. We will find ways to see her, will wait hours to get a glimpse and all kinds of adventures!!!


And one day, on the summit of anxiety, excitement, ecstasy etc etc.. with lots and loads of tension and increased heart beats we just express our feelings. I couldn't understand yet, why do we fear so much to speak some words, some 4 or 5 words,arranged in some special order(!) but still, somehow, it remains as a fact.


And there starts the next phase, provided the other person also accepts and re-arrange some another 5 or 6 words or less.
Love:
According to me, this is the second best phase. In this, a kind of responsibility has to be there in order to move the whole thing ahead. We need to spend quality time with her chatting some sense or non-sense, some joke or future plans etc etc depending upon the individuals and intellect. 


Our experience, theories in economics and some other theories points its finger to a fact that we gradually lose our interest in a things after achieving it. We don't have the craze towards computer,car, bike and many other things as we had earlier. Same is the case with relationships too. Strangely and interestingly, we lose the intensity of interest in our love and the so called responsibility become a sort of burden. But still we bear everything for the sake of the sacred feeling.


And to reach the next milestone, we again with lots of pain and hardships, by moving against every opposition with  a courage acquired from some unknown world, we do anything and everything and even the impossibles. And finally we achieve it. So into the final state..into marriage. Yes, here we are talking about a successful love story only.


Marriage:
So with that marriage, the love was successful. But this is the phase of real responsibility. In this phase we are stepping down to reality from a dream world known as Love. And when we starts to experience the reality, the very thing that lead them to this state starts to vanish from life. The element of love is no where to seen except in a few occasions. And our increased responsibility again make the going rough. The 'so far' hidden negative sides of personalities starts to show their color from both sides. 


And some day, when looking back, we search hard to find where they lost their precious love. When it is hard to find, we think about the past days and think "For this, everything happened??"


But this is one side of one story. There is another side for this story in some other story. And there are so many other stories. So whats your story. What ever may be the story, don't let the LOVE die in our lives. Its really a great feeling. It has to be experienced. 


And Love to hear more from you..Expecting your comments..

Philosophers...

One of my scattered dreams once took me to one of the works of a great philosopher.

He is really a great philosopher. But if i understood his philosophies, i cant say that he is a great philosopher. Because if I have to say he is great, I need to compare him with the not-so-great philo. But according to his views comparison only give rise to sorrow. We compare something with something and out of its result, we became happy or sorrow. But we know, most of the time we became sad.

We tend to compare our todays with yesterdays, an event with another, a girl with another, our now with then, todays success with previous ones,  and so on and on and on.. it seems to be endless.. We are doing so , in order to get that bitter feeling when we understood the fact that today wasn't as great as that day!!

So comparison brings us sorrow. So we should not compare anything. Then how can I say he is great.
It means comparison brings sorrow along with it.

Is comparison the real culprit??
Its Thoughts!! Yes our thoughts are the root cause of everything..!!
We are comparing, because we are thinking..
So what we have to do?? Become silent in our thoughts?? Is that possible??

All thoughts are old.. They are simply the memories of our old experiences.  So when we are seeing a thing, we are actually associating with our old memories and actually perceiving everything through  the image that we have created in our mind!! It may sometimes bring happiness, sadness fear and many other feelings.. So thoughts  are the real cause of all our feeling. If we wanted to be happy always, we needed to see things as they are, not through the images that we have created, not with a pre-occupied thoughts.

So we need to control our thoughts. Actually we need to be a silent mind without any thoughts, to become happy forever. How can we achieve this?? By consciously controlling our thoughts??
But when we are consciously controlling our thoughts, it creates  some sort of resistance and so some friction in our mind. So it again worsen the situation.. So what we have to do??

Complete Confusion...Right??
That was the same thing happened to me also. I jus wanted to give you the same dose..but it is a kind of very low standard dose. I am never so great to interpret a great philosopher through my views.. If I ever try to do so, its out of my ignorance only.

How many of  you think that it is a complete crap?? if you feel that way, jus lemme know..

A Bird...

A few minutes before, it was raining heavily. I was standing in the balcony and enjoying the rain.
Well there is some beauty in rain to enjoy!!

After sometimes, when it all came to an end, I saw a small bird sitting in a tree branch.
What is so peculiar about it??!

Well, yeah... there is nothing much peculiar about such a day to day, common thing, unless we give some thought over it.

My thoughts ran like these..

The bird simply sitting in the branch. It does not appear to have some great goal in life, no purpose of life, not craving for attention .... It simply seeks to have a small, modest nest. It just need the sufficient amount of food for that day only. I do not know, weather it is jealous of other birds, animals or something else...
It leads a modest, simple life without seeking for a position, without seeking for power, without searching for recognition and admiration...

But what about man??!
He is always in search of more. And For him more is less.

When we understand the so called real truth of life.. competition, conflicts everything is a real wastage of energy.. But can we live a life like a bird?? I think no. Because the society has conditioned our mind in certain way so that 'life of a bird' has became a purposeless one as far as we are concerned.

I am confused... what to follow..where it will lead...
So I devised a simple solution. Go with the Flow.. How pathetic !!!!!

Numbers....

Numbers... how simple and cute they are..!

0,1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9 Only ten 'things'. Easy to learn, easy to remember.. Not a jargon at all..

Our day to day life is so interlinked with it.. and cant live a day with out using them in some form or other...

When we felt lonely, we punch in some number in our mobile phone...

we may type some message..Here Numbers are doing the job for us...

Numbers can make us happy, it can make us sad..it can make us laught and even cry..

When some a student gets higher number as their marks in any exam..it makes him/her happy..

While someone gets higher number as their rank..it makes them sad..

When someone gets higher number as money.. he is obviously happy..

When it is all about his debt.. he is the sad person..

when some number in certain order appears...it makes us happy..

If somebody is checking the results of a lottery draw..

and the number matches...!!!

So numbers are capable of causing even a heart attack..!

If you gave some exams ... and your roll number appeared.. you are a happy man..

You are eagerly looking for the free limit of your broadband plan..

You are tuning into some radio station...

You are flicking the channel using your remote controller..

Numbers are everywhere...

Without your permission, you are getting older and older..

Your age is shown by numbers..

The days you lived in this world is shown by numbers..

The coming days are shown by numbers..

Past..Present..Future..Eeverything is represented by numbers..

The whole world.. Each day.. Each minute and even each micro or nano seconds are counted using numbers...

If you misrepresent any number or change the order it can make a big difference..

In your exam, if you enterd the wrong number.. everything is gone.. you need not have to write the exam..

If you punch one different number while you callin someone..you will reach someone else..

If you change the number of your vehicle's number plate..you can be a criminal..!

If you add an extra 'zero' it can make a differnce of 1 lac and 10 lac..

A simple representation of number caused a lots of problem during the start of this century.. The Y2K problem..

Everything in this world..however small it might be.. how irrelevent it seems to us..(may be due to our repeated usage)...all have its own importance..

Thank you ' calendar ' for teaching me this lesson.. ;)

The existence of a writer...

I always wondered, why do you people spend time on my blog, and why do you want to spend your precious time and effort reading the craps written by me??!! Well I must ask this question myself when I read others blog.

Well this is just the case of a blog only. In a bigger scale you can see many people spending their time in book stalls and spending their hard earned money buying books and voraciously reading from page one to the end.

An author may have definite idea about some definite topics, and it may be good, bad or even ugly!! So we are paying and spending our time to understand somebody's idea, which the creator thinks right. There are different genres of books. I do agree with people who buy 'self help' books, because it definitely help people to some extend. But what about other types??!! Its all about we are paying attention to somebody's work, somebody's prejudice, somebody's ego, somebody's fantasy etc etc..

Recently I saw a person near the second hand book selling place or seconds book place. He appeared to be a budhijeevi kindaa person, shabbily dressed,with a cloth bag and carefully careless about himself. Well he wanted to buy a lots of books from there, but he didn't have enough money with him, but still after a long negotiation and all he manages to buy some books and that too on a promise to pay later, I suppose.
Well is there any need for him to buy books like that??!!


Well if we think in a pessimistic way, there is nothing in this world that we have to do. Like wise no need for buying a book and savour the ideology of some other man with some brand name!!

But its all about passion, not reasons that keeps us going in our life. If such people were not present in this world how many of the so called classics will get published?? Its all about the appreciation and comments that an author gets from the readers that keeps him going. Well I personally know the happiness when i see a new comment to any of my creation. It helps me to satisfy the ego!! ;)

So you, you are the reason for the existence of a writer in me, even though I didn't produced any world class things...;) So keep commenting and give me feed backs. :)
Thank you for your support so far... :)

a jounney into thyself...! ! !

! ! ! ! ! !! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !! ! ! ! ! !!! ! !! ! ! !


impulsive in nature..
inspired by everything..
n running behind everything
and losing interest on the go..

carefree when opportunities pass by..

false high self esteem or low self confidence
.. don't know...

but still moving on with optimism..
when optimism fights with pessimism
when good quarrels with bad..
when the sea around you is disturbed..
time- the referee comes in and solves the dispute..

gaining nothing, but experiences..
losing opportunities, but everything..
moving on in life..with the wind..
n reaches where it takes...
no complaints and no regrets..
'coz Carefree is my name and show off to thyself is the hobby..


! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !! ! ! ! ! ! !!!!! ! !

how to have these so called cofidence and self esteem???

it is very easy to say that you should have strong belief in yourself, you should be confident etc..etc.. But in reality it is very difficult to achieve those 'precious gifts'. But still it is not an impossible thing to have confidence in yourself.

People are lucky who have inherited good qualities. some other lucky people develop good qualities from their environment.Success from childhood greatly helps one to attain good self esteem. All these people are a kind of lucky people.

But luckier people are those who did not inherit those qualities, but wanted to change their attitudes to a good and positive attitude. To help them there are lots of Self help books are available. Also look for motivational book , articles etc. Internet is a vast area where you can find thousands and thousands of websites. Google will make the work easy for us.

one of the working thing is write down some confidence boosting sentence or your nearest goal in a paper clearly and read it aloud or silently -depends upon the people around you and many things- but with the right emotion. Imagine yourself achieving the goal. do it daily and your unconscious mind at last surrender to this thought and you will end up in achieving the goal..

Just try it out by yourself and pls let me know...
Once you experienced it by yourself, your confidence multiplies..while the multiplying factor being a very large number..

Be positive, Be a Winner..
all the best..

your life.....

Our life is associated with too many other's life around us. But who is the hero in your life???

Yes.. YOU are the hero of your life. whatever may be the situation, whoever may be the people around you, as far as your life is concerned you are the hero of your life. If many people are participating in a competition along with you. Whom you want to see as the winner?? Its of course yourself..right?!! Yes.
Suppose If you are in love with a girl--well she can be the heroine in your life-- all others associated with this happening wont have any value in your life. If some other guys, may be more eligible than you(if ur ego allow it as a true fact) in love with her, or trying to win her love, is your villain. So you got a villain also. Most of the time parents may also take the role of villain in such situations.

So these are some situations. In all such situations our self esteem make us believe that we are the hero of the scenario. If you can believe this fact without a small trace of doubt, you definitely can be the winner of that situation. Its not just some simple words. It is the fact. You are what you believe. So if can make yourself believe the fact that you are the winner of the game, you will be the winner, provided you have a doubtless belief in your strength. If small percentage of doubt is there, you cant perform upto the mark. So think positively, develop a good self esteem and self confidence and be a winner...

caampus... ;-(

ഒരിക്കല്‍ കണിക്കൊന്നകള്‍ പൂക്കുമ്പോള്‍ സന്തോഷമായിരുന്നു മനസ്സില്‍,
മറ്റൊരിക്കല്‍ മധ്യവേനലവധിക്ക് വേണ്ടി പ്രാര്‍ത്ഥിച്ചിരുന്നു ,
എന്നാലിന്ന് കൊന്നകള്‍ ചിരി തൂകുന്നില്ല,
അതിനു ഒരേയൊരു അര്‍ഥം മാത്രം - വേര്‍പാട്‌
വേനല്‍ ചൂടിനു മറ്റൊരു ചങ്ങാതി കൂടി
വേര്‍പിരിയുന്ന സൌഹൃദങ്ങള്‍ ...
കാലമേ നങ്ങള്‍ക്ക് വേണ്ടി നിനക്ക് മെല്ലെ സഞ്ചരിക്കാമോ?


made friendzz for a lifetime..
lived life to the core..
enjoyed every moment...

different experiences..
newer feelings..
stupid fights, great jokes..
canteen..corridors.exams..assignments..
mobile..messages..mis cals..
examzz..internals.last minute study..attendance..
love..proposals..mis understandings..
friendzzz..teachers..juniors...

and a four beautiful years..!!!

Its all over and will neva come back..
if comes back.. never be the same..
our college life is over!!!!

Only the golden memories are in hands to cherish...

school days...

When people think about their school days they often they that it induce a kind of nostalgia in their mind. Yeah, I must also admit that fact. It really give some good old memories.
But if you go deep into the memories you can find its mixed with a bunch of rubbish activities. By 'rubbish activities' i did not mean our childish activities, but something that i am going to tell you.

Have you ever been a class leader???
Well if you don't know who a class leader and what all his duties; i will tell you now. Most of the time the brightest mind in that class is selected as the class leader. His/her main duty is to note down the names of the problem makers in the class when teacher is not present in the class. Well, who all are these problem makers??? According to the Lower/ Upper primary school 'laws' the people who talks in a kind of loud voice with his mates when teacher is not present in the class during the class time are the problem makers. if any boy or girl is found to be violating the law, his name has to be written on a small piece of paper by the so called class leader. This has to be handed over to the teacher when he/she arrives. OR if he is not present it has to be handed over to a teacher in the nearby class.

Well this is the first rubbish thing according to me. Pupil has to be sit silently in the class for an hour or so, if he utter a sentence his name is carved onto a piece of paper which would later submitted to the 'law and order authorities'

The next of this kinda activity is the further steps related to the first activity.

When the teacher receives the 'most wanted' list, he comes to the class. By that time pupil will settle down. And most of the usual suspects were anxious thinking whether their name is there in the list or not. Then breaking the suspense, the teacher calls out the names loudly. Then each of the terrorists stands up. Then the show of the teacher stars. With a long, slim stick he starts to give them the medicine for their "disciplinelessness".
Well now thinking about such things I have no words to express. Is that discipline??
is this the way to teach students??
well there are much more rubbish things in our school. lets find it out later.

types of studies.........

everyone in this world definitely once being to school.
At the time of our schooling , we may follow different types of studying methods.
I have personally seen two main types of studying methods.
One is to study for examination purpose and the second is for our own understanding purpose.
Most of the students , most of the time follow the first method- Study exclusively for the examinations.
Previous year question papers and many guides aid for this purpose.
Even the students who are pursuing higher studies also follow the suit.
They are studying a few days before the exam date and study the most important, frequently asked type of questions and store it in the memory sectioned to store datas that needed to be active only for a few days. And on the D-day he pour everything on his head onto the paper. Thats it. Nothing will be there in the head after that.. Its all finished. He cannot recollect what he learned a few days back after the exam. Thats the specialty of this type of study.

only a few people are really interested in the second type of study method. this type of methods needs interest on the part of the student. He really wanted to be interested in the subject. He studies it for his own purpose, out of his own interest, to increase his knowledge. This kind of method requires lot of time, lot of patience. So most of the people prefers the first and easier method.

What is your style of study buddies??

are we fools!!!!!?

We are living in a world of globalization.Market forces are controlling our so called life. Well actually they are making our life. they are determining what we have to wear.. what we have to eat and drink.. what we have to celebrate.. etc..etc..
They are controlling us in all nukes and corners of our life.

Valentines day...

Most of the so called "youth" celebrate this day with full of their energy. they are buying flowers , cards, ice creams....the list goes on depending upon the length, breadth and thickness of their pockets.

All of a sudden who started celebrating such a new event. For a few years before we have not heard of such a day. Then may be the business people aimed our youth. they brain-washed our youth and taught them about such an event and showed them how to celebrate that day so that they could make some big money and profit.

Without giving a damn to these thoughts we are still celebrating Valentine's day with its full colour and charm..


On the other side some other interesting things are going on.
Some fools with different names are opposing the celebration of the same on some cultural grounds!!!
Yes.. indeed. India has got a great culture..No doubt about that..
But what we can say about holding the same culture for some culture less activities!!
They are not allowing the young people belonging to opposite sexes, even to travel along the road!!!

We are the fools standing in between these two sides..
We are celebrating because someone has told us to do so..
We are feared to celebrate because someone has threatened us..
SWO who are we?? what are we titled to call ourselves???

Dual personalities..!!!

you might have heard about this term - "dual personality".
You know a person for a long time in your workplace and you think you know everything about him. But when you see him in some other situation like at his home or somewhere else, he has changed a lot. He is not the person you knew before. His behavior has changed. Yeah, there are many persons like this. they change depending upon different situation, places, persons etc. It can be called the dual personality.

But in this digital world also there are this type of persons.
So i like to call them "digital dual personalities"

Here I am going to give you some of my thoughts and some examples about this kind of people.

In their real life they may be introvert, not ready to speak an 'earful of sentences' like that.. but when they are here in this digital world, they have become the ultra brilliant extroverts.. If they are in some kind of social networking sites the may go on chatting with 'stranger than strangest people' for hours and hours at a stretch..

i think such a situation arise because of a kind of security that we can feel here.
Our real identity can be hide, or others know nothing about us except what we are ready to share with them. Also they are not under the insecurity of facing and looking into the eyes of other person when they are talking. Some shy people do not like to talk with people just because they need to look at their face during the conversation.These type of insecurities are absent in this digi-world. So they are more confident than real life situation and make newer and newer amigos.

some other types of persons are also in this 'by product of technology' world.
These people become philosophers or people who use high sounding words. Well its a good thing. But in real life they cannot be as successful as in digital world. They can easily come up with ideas.. publish it.. and will get a lot of audience.. and reviews and feed backs..both good and bad..
In real world these things take time and also it takes lot of effort..
and one more thing.. we can easily accept even the bad criticism if given not directly. Its intensity will be less if we read it from the feedback or comment box.

So try to figure out such people, may be with different attributes specified above. May be you also such a person [lyk me..;-)]

MY FRIEND....

[non-orphan part ii.. a short story dedicated to those who feel they have no one with them..]


" when i am alone , i'm all alone..
no one is there to share with me, no one is there for me to talk.
but people around me are all enjoying themselves with their girlfriends or better say their lady love through the privilege that they got from the lavish offers put forward by some mobile companies which are specifically designed for such people..

i too have mobile, i too have offers, i too have money to recharge..
but!! but i'm lacking one thing.. the GF..

i'm best friend friend of some, good friend of many and have lots of other acquaintance.
i understand them, i lend my ears to their problems and console them, solve their problem....
but..but...who is there for me??

in a way i have friends..good friends and best friends.
but not the kind that i wanted..
i want or i need a friend who can understand me, who care for me, to whom i can tell everything..
being a boy what i wanted is ofcourse a girl friend with all these qualifications..

sometimes when the feeling of loneliness creeps in i do wanted to talk to someone, i do want to share my feelings..
as i desperately failed to express myself, i searched for some other means..
and thus decided to give my problems a textual 'incarnation'..

i approached my all time companion..my mobile..
started typing a long message..and pushed my linguistic skills to its limit.. and the message character limit as well..

now i want to share my feelings.. so i have to send it to someone..!!
but to whom should i send it??!!
the answer is still " NO ONE ".. i realised with small pain my mind..
then i started to think of a friend who is like GOD...
GOD.. to whom we can say anything and everything.. will be there always to hear everything that we say without a single word against us..
and who bless us with all kind of positive things if our belief is also positive..

can i find a friend like him????

may be No..
then why don't i make GOD as my friend.. a thought flashed through my mind..
yes.. he is my best and dearest friend from now onwards..

a friend and guardian for all who don't have no one to share , to hear and to support..
God is great..!!! "

I closed his diary..."sorry dear bro to read your diary withoout permission..and i ll try to be ur best friend..God please give me all your abilities"..