a jounney into thyself...! ! !

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impulsive in nature..
inspired by everything..
n running behind everything
and losing interest on the go..

carefree when opportunities pass by..

false high self esteem or low self confidence
.. don't know...

but still moving on with optimism..
when optimism fights with pessimism
when good quarrels with bad..
when the sea around you is disturbed..
time- the referee comes in and solves the dispute..

gaining nothing, but experiences..
losing opportunities, but everything..
moving on in life..with the wind..
n reaches where it takes...
no complaints and no regrets..
'coz Carefree is my name and show off to thyself is the hobby..


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how to have these so called cofidence and self esteem???

it is very easy to say that you should have strong belief in yourself, you should be confident etc..etc.. But in reality it is very difficult to achieve those 'precious gifts'. But still it is not an impossible thing to have confidence in yourself.

People are lucky who have inherited good qualities. some other lucky people develop good qualities from their environment.Success from childhood greatly helps one to attain good self esteem. All these people are a kind of lucky people.

But luckier people are those who did not inherit those qualities, but wanted to change their attitudes to a good and positive attitude. To help them there are lots of Self help books are available. Also look for motivational book , articles etc. Internet is a vast area where you can find thousands and thousands of websites. Google will make the work easy for us.

one of the working thing is write down some confidence boosting sentence or your nearest goal in a paper clearly and read it aloud or silently -depends upon the people around you and many things- but with the right emotion. Imagine yourself achieving the goal. do it daily and your unconscious mind at last surrender to this thought and you will end up in achieving the goal..

Just try it out by yourself and pls let me know...
Once you experienced it by yourself, your confidence multiplies..while the multiplying factor being a very large number..

Be positive, Be a Winner..
all the best..

your life.....

Our life is associated with too many other's life around us. But who is the hero in your life???

Yes.. YOU are the hero of your life. whatever may be the situation, whoever may be the people around you, as far as your life is concerned you are the hero of your life. If many people are participating in a competition along with you. Whom you want to see as the winner?? Its of course yourself..right?!! Yes.
Suppose If you are in love with a girl--well she can be the heroine in your life-- all others associated with this happening wont have any value in your life. If some other guys, may be more eligible than you(if ur ego allow it as a true fact) in love with her, or trying to win her love, is your villain. So you got a villain also. Most of the time parents may also take the role of villain in such situations.

So these are some situations. In all such situations our self esteem make us believe that we are the hero of the scenario. If you can believe this fact without a small trace of doubt, you definitely can be the winner of that situation. Its not just some simple words. It is the fact. You are what you believe. So if can make yourself believe the fact that you are the winner of the game, you will be the winner, provided you have a doubtless belief in your strength. If small percentage of doubt is there, you cant perform upto the mark. So think positively, develop a good self esteem and self confidence and be a winner...

caampus... ;-(

ഒരിക്കല്‍ കണിക്കൊന്നകള്‍ പൂക്കുമ്പോള്‍ സന്തോഷമായിരുന്നു മനസ്സില്‍,
മറ്റൊരിക്കല്‍ മധ്യവേനലവധിക്ക് വേണ്ടി പ്രാര്‍ത്ഥിച്ചിരുന്നു ,
എന്നാലിന്ന് കൊന്നകള്‍ ചിരി തൂകുന്നില്ല,
അതിനു ഒരേയൊരു അര്‍ഥം മാത്രം - വേര്‍പാട്‌
വേനല്‍ ചൂടിനു മറ്റൊരു ചങ്ങാതി കൂടി
വേര്‍പിരിയുന്ന സൌഹൃദങ്ങള്‍ ...
കാലമേ നങ്ങള്‍ക്ക് വേണ്ടി നിനക്ക് മെല്ലെ സഞ്ചരിക്കാമോ?


made friendzz for a lifetime..
lived life to the core..
enjoyed every moment...

different experiences..
newer feelings..
stupid fights, great jokes..
canteen..corridors.exams..assignments..
mobile..messages..mis cals..
examzz..internals.last minute study..attendance..
love..proposals..mis understandings..
friendzzz..teachers..juniors...

and a four beautiful years..!!!

Its all over and will neva come back..
if comes back.. never be the same..
our college life is over!!!!

Only the golden memories are in hands to cherish...

school days...

When people think about their school days they often they that it induce a kind of nostalgia in their mind. Yeah, I must also admit that fact. It really give some good old memories.
But if you go deep into the memories you can find its mixed with a bunch of rubbish activities. By 'rubbish activities' i did not mean our childish activities, but something that i am going to tell you.

Have you ever been a class leader???
Well if you don't know who a class leader and what all his duties; i will tell you now. Most of the time the brightest mind in that class is selected as the class leader. His/her main duty is to note down the names of the problem makers in the class when teacher is not present in the class. Well, who all are these problem makers??? According to the Lower/ Upper primary school 'laws' the people who talks in a kind of loud voice with his mates when teacher is not present in the class during the class time are the problem makers. if any boy or girl is found to be violating the law, his name has to be written on a small piece of paper by the so called class leader. This has to be handed over to the teacher when he/she arrives. OR if he is not present it has to be handed over to a teacher in the nearby class.

Well this is the first rubbish thing according to me. Pupil has to be sit silently in the class for an hour or so, if he utter a sentence his name is carved onto a piece of paper which would later submitted to the 'law and order authorities'

The next of this kinda activity is the further steps related to the first activity.

When the teacher receives the 'most wanted' list, he comes to the class. By that time pupil will settle down. And most of the usual suspects were anxious thinking whether their name is there in the list or not. Then breaking the suspense, the teacher calls out the names loudly. Then each of the terrorists stands up. Then the show of the teacher stars. With a long, slim stick he starts to give them the medicine for their "disciplinelessness".
Well now thinking about such things I have no words to express. Is that discipline??
is this the way to teach students??
well there are much more rubbish things in our school. lets find it out later.