how to have these so called cofidence and self esteem???

it is very easy to say that you should have strong belief in yourself, you should be confident etc..etc.. But in reality it is very difficult to achieve those 'precious gifts'. But still it is not an impossible thing to have confidence in yourself.

People are lucky who have inherited good qualities. some other lucky people develop good qualities from their environment.Success from childhood greatly helps one to attain good self esteem. All these people are a kind of lucky people.

But luckier people are those who did not inherit those qualities, but wanted to change their attitudes to a good and positive attitude. To help them there are lots of Self help books are available. Also look for motivational book , articles etc. Internet is a vast area where you can find thousands and thousands of websites. Google will make the work easy for us.

one of the working thing is write down some confidence boosting sentence or your nearest goal in a paper clearly and read it aloud or silently -depends upon the people around you and many things- but with the right emotion. Imagine yourself achieving the goal. do it daily and your unconscious mind at last surrender to this thought and you will end up in achieving the goal..

Just try it out by yourself and pls let me know...
Once you experienced it by yourself, your confidence multiplies..while the multiplying factor being a very large number..

Be positive, Be a Winner..
all the best..