Love, Marriage and Responsibility.

Love... The most celebrated feeling...There won't be too many people who didnt jot a two or three lines, down about this wonderful feeling..this feeling gave wings to the expressions of the poets, novelists, artist, actors,and even to many bloggers..

 We know the ultimate goal of any true love is to be together forever, through the institution known as marriage.One day I was wondering about the changes of phases in a relationships and the responsibility factor.

I feel, we have to cross three phases before we finally land onto the successful 'marriage' institution through love. First one is the 'falling in love' or infatuation stage. Second one is, the stage when both started loving each other. And finally, marriage. So we can say the milestones as, initial meeting or something like that, proposal and marriage.

Infatuation stage:

According to me, this is the best of all phases. In this stage, one of the future couples- or both as in the case of love at first sight like things-starts to develop an interest towards the other person. In this phase, the one person may or may not know the other person's feeling. But there is a joy in dreaming of a boy or girl and to spend sleepless nights with his or her thoughts [ for the time being, i will use 'with her thoughts' etc., coz it is being written in a boy's perspective ;) ] Most importantly , in this phase we lack all kinds of responsibility. Thats is the very reason why I said that this is the best of all phases. By the word responsibility, I meant the general things such as meeting her by leaving all your works behind, spending time with her etc.. We need not have to bother about all these responsibilities, for the reason that we haven't yet started the relation. Everything is in our mind. 

But very interestingly we are completely, even 200% wiling to dedicate all our time for her. The more intense our feeling , the better. We will find ways to see her, will wait hours to get a glimpse and all kinds of adventures!!!


And one day, on the summit of anxiety, excitement, ecstasy etc etc.. with lots and loads of tension and increased heart beats we just express our feelings. I couldn't understand yet, why do we fear so much to speak some words, some 4 or 5 words,arranged in some special order(!) but still, somehow, it remains as a fact.


And there starts the next phase, provided the other person also accepts and re-arrange some another 5 or 6 words or less.
Love:
According to me, this is the second best phase. In this, a kind of responsibility has to be there in order to move the whole thing ahead. We need to spend quality time with her chatting some sense or non-sense, some joke or future plans etc etc depending upon the individuals and intellect. 


Our experience, theories in economics and some other theories points its finger to a fact that we gradually lose our interest in a things after achieving it. We don't have the craze towards computer,car, bike and many other things as we had earlier. Same is the case with relationships too. Strangely and interestingly, we lose the intensity of interest in our love and the so called responsibility become a sort of burden. But still we bear everything for the sake of the sacred feeling.


And to reach the next milestone, we again with lots of pain and hardships, by moving against every opposition with  a courage acquired from some unknown world, we do anything and everything and even the impossibles. And finally we achieve it. So into the final state..into marriage. Yes, here we are talking about a successful love story only.


Marriage:
So with that marriage, the love was successful. But this is the phase of real responsibility. In this phase we are stepping down to reality from a dream world known as Love. And when we starts to experience the reality, the very thing that lead them to this state starts to vanish from life. The element of love is no where to seen except in a few occasions. And our increased responsibility again make the going rough. The 'so far' hidden negative sides of personalities starts to show their color from both sides. 


And some day, when looking back, we search hard to find where they lost their precious love. When it is hard to find, we think about the past days and think "For this, everything happened??"


But this is one side of one story. There is another side for this story in some other story. And there are so many other stories. So whats your story. What ever may be the story, don't let the LOVE die in our lives. Its really a great feeling. It has to be experienced. 


And Love to hear more from you..Expecting your comments..

storie - de - programme

#include < Oneday our hero was, like anyother day, using his precious orkut account. 
That particular day, he got a new friends request and that too a girl. 
He checked her name. No, not any of his friends. Didnt even hear her name previously.
But who cares, its a girl no. 
So he jumped into her profile and found only two other friends, a girl and a boy.
Not much friends!! May be she has just started orkuting,he thought. >


char day1( ),day2( ), day3,...dayN( );


char day1( )
{
"who is this may i know you?"

"hi...i jus saw ur profile...got intersted..dats it.."

"..k ... so wt u doin"

"jus like u..jus compltd ma course"

"oh..dats great...hw was the xams n all"

"blah blah blah"

"bleh bleh bleh"

}

day2( )
{

"blah blah blah"

"bleh bleh bleh"

}

day i ( )=day2( );

for (i=3; i

{ 

day i( );

}

print " Friendship got stronger "

day N+1 ( )

{ 

check profile( );

{ 

show results ? = "3 friends, 257 scraps, 3 communities"

}

}

function call doubt( )

{ " is that a real profile or what"

"will it be a fake profile?"

}

function call clear_doubt( )

{ " hey, why do u chat wit me only..i cud see only ma scraps there..y??"

"nothin..not many frenz rnt here"

"so u r here to chat wit me only????!"

"i don know "

"so hw did u come to know abt me?"

"thru a frend f urs"

"whoz that"

"i cant say that"

"y?"

"i cant tel u the reason too"

"y....y...??"

"i cant"

}

if ( user = fake_user)

{

if(fake_user= male)

{ "It will be a great shame on myself"

" I wasted all my time and energy"

"But i should act like a clever man and let him know that i knew that she was he earlier, and was playing around to know how far would it go"

}

else if( fake_user= female)

{ "its still a lottery"

"she gotta be my fan or admirer!!"

"No prob in continuing the chat and later i'll ask her real identity"

}

}

else

{ "then user is real, but a kind of different, may be a bit eccentric"

"but,still she gotta be my fan!"

}

getting_proof( )

{

"extracting ip address and verifying the location"

result : affirmative

"location got confirmed"

" asking for photo in a joyful mood,expecting a negative"

result : negative

"identity not confirmed"

"asking for mobile no. in another playful mood, expecting another negative"

result : neagtive

"identity through voice not confirmed"

"identity cannot be trusted as real , still chances of being fake"

Re_think( )

{ "why wasting your time for a "beeper" "??

"let him/her do his/her business"

}

mistery_coninues( );

forced_exit( );

Return comments( );

Thank you.

NB: Geeks pls don't scrutinize this. I am just a poor blogger, not a programmer.

This special story is dedicated to someone who encourages me to write more.

Here is her SPORADIC THOUGHTS.. 

why should i write..??

I am an egotist.. I feel important when I write something.. I feel that the thing I am writing is of very important matter, only i can do it.. and appreciation also keeps it all  going.. I may even try to write a book.. hoping to become a world classic or best seller...
But i do understand that I am nothing... I may be something, but in nothing.. Yes pride goes before the fall..

You can think you are the best, until you meet the 'better than the best'. As long as your ignorance is great, your inexperience is vast, your acquaintance with greatness is less, you feel important.... But the day you meet something real good...that is the day you realize everything...

I want to realize that I am nothing.. what ever i thinks or believes is not as great as i think..why should i write then??

But i will write..not for anyone else..but to satisfy my ego... jus to consume some more blogger space with craps..!!
but does anyone feel that i must write?? No... why should they??

Philosophers...

One of my scattered dreams once took me to one of the works of a great philosopher.

He is really a great philosopher. But if i understood his philosophies, i cant say that he is a great philosopher. Because if I have to say he is great, I need to compare him with the not-so-great philo. But according to his views comparison only give rise to sorrow. We compare something with something and out of its result, we became happy or sorrow. But we know, most of the time we became sad.

We tend to compare our todays with yesterdays, an event with another, a girl with another, our now with then, todays success with previous ones,  and so on and on and on.. it seems to be endless.. We are doing so , in order to get that bitter feeling when we understood the fact that today wasn't as great as that day!!

So comparison brings us sorrow. So we should not compare anything. Then how can I say he is great.
It means comparison brings sorrow along with it.

Is comparison the real culprit??
Its Thoughts!! Yes our thoughts are the root cause of everything..!!
We are comparing, because we are thinking..
So what we have to do?? Become silent in our thoughts?? Is that possible??

All thoughts are old.. They are simply the memories of our old experiences.  So when we are seeing a thing, we are actually associating with our old memories and actually perceiving everything through  the image that we have created in our mind!! It may sometimes bring happiness, sadness fear and many other feelings.. So thoughts  are the real cause of all our feeling. If we wanted to be happy always, we needed to see things as they are, not through the images that we have created, not with a pre-occupied thoughts.

So we need to control our thoughts. Actually we need to be a silent mind without any thoughts, to become happy forever. How can we achieve this?? By consciously controlling our thoughts??
But when we are consciously controlling our thoughts, it creates  some sort of resistance and so some friction in our mind. So it again worsen the situation.. So what we have to do??

Complete Confusion...Right??
That was the same thing happened to me also. I jus wanted to give you the same dose..but it is a kind of very low standard dose. I am never so great to interpret a great philosopher through my views.. If I ever try to do so, its out of my ignorance only.

How many of  you think that it is a complete crap?? if you feel that way, jus lemme know..

A foolish Crow.

Just like any other story, once there lived a Crow.  To make a good story, it must be different from others. Yeah, here also, the crow was little different from other crows. It was widely considered (by whom?!) as a foolish crow.

One fine day, there was a big party going on. Many of the crows including this foolish crow was present outside of the party hall. They were all waiting for their single course dinner of that evening. The time had finally arrived, the wastes were thrown out. Like an explosion, all the crows tried for their luck. It was a really a tough fight. It was always said that only the best would win in this kind of 'party fights'. Because everyone would be looking for the best and they all had to compete with all other crows around them, on the same time. So only the best would survive.

What is important according to our point of interest is that whether the foolish crow got  a piece or not.

Yeah, it also got a piece, and as a matter of fact, one of the best among the lot. It was certainly not as foolish as others say, one might think. It flew to the top of a big sign board with the meat piece on its beak.Some jealous crows were hoping to get that piece. But this special crow seemed to be familiar with the Aesop story and all. So it didn't act foolishly.

But, suddenly a view struck its eyes. Very high in the skies, an Eagle was flying, and the crow could easily see a big lump of meat under its claws. The crow was sure that if he could also fly that much high, finding better and bigger meat would be much easier. Without thinking much, It decided to fly higher. It dropped its hard earned meat piece and flew to the heights. Just to be like an Eagle!!

In order to reach the heights, he took off with all its energy  that even  the sign board shook.
And the sign board on which it sat read :

" The future belongs to those who believe in their Dreams ".

.

An Unusually usual Love story..

Once there lived a Lion. It was not like all other lions. He was a little different from other lions. He was very kind hearted and was very helping. He wanted everyone around him happy. Even during hunting for food, he showed sympathy to his preys.

One fine day, he was simply walking through the grass land. Suddenly some wolves started running as they saw him. And he saw a sheep crying, and she was badly wounded. The kind lion went nearby, but the sheep was even more frightened. She lost all the hopes to live and she was preparing herself for dying. But she never knew, it was a kind lion.

He took her under his protection and nursed her with utmost care. The sheep was all surprised t find a kind lion among all other sort of cruel animals. Her lost hopes came back. In fact they got brighter. Just like any other relationships, the admiration turned into Love. A sheep loved a Lion.

The lion understood her feeling towards him. But he knew all the consequences of the relationship.He always tried to avoid her. But one day he came to know that she has got no one, and nowhere to go. So out of compassion, he offered her a life.

Just like any other Leo, he also has all the Leo qualities. He was romantic, warn hearted, enthusiastic,broad minded and generous. She liked all those qualities and he liked her without looking too much into her life. He had some general concepts about a sheep. So they started a good life.The Lion loved her as far as he could and the sheep also loved him back very much. But sheep always wanted him beside her, she always wanted to be with him and to talk endlessly.

But Lion never tried to caress her or kiss her for fear that it would hurt her and leave deep mark on her forever. But she couldn't understand his behavior. She thought that his behavior had changed, and he no longer love her as before.

Similar problems were also running in lion's mind too. Leos by birth are ambitious. They always want more and want to reach higher and higher. He had great many plans in his mind, to be the King of the whole Jungle and to bring some rules to protect other small animals from the cruelty of big animals and so on. But she could never understand him nor his plans. She thought that he was also like any other big cat, he would go searching for prey and hunt it down and would come back to her, to share moments with her. She never bother to understand him and he could never live upto her expectations even though he understood her.

Misunderstanding grew in sheep's mind, while conflicts grew in Lion's mind. He couldn't do his works, her feelings always disturbed him. He always wanted to share his dreams and passions with her. But she always compared him with other normal cat's and so she could never inspire him nor motivate him. She always asked him about hunting and never bothered to ask about his big dreams or any other thing that would have inspire him.

Leo when not motivated, were simply a different animals. They became reserved and at times they are even dogmatic and intolerant. He went into his cave. He used to go to his came when some problems disturbs his mind all the time. And after solving the problem only he came out of the cave. He decided to go to the cave once again. But it was all new to her. She thought he was avoiding her, and he didn't love her anymore.

Inside the cave the lion thought. " She can never understand me nor my dreams and passions. She will never inspire me. And if she can't inspire me , I can't love her with my full heart. Yeah, I'm romantic, kind hearted,generous and all. But  I need motivation and I need to be motivated. As long as she can't help me directly or indirectly in achieving my goals, I can't love her back. I am not looking for all day love. Why did'n she understand that??! I need inspiration and appreciation.  If I still live with her, I can offer her nothing but sorrow only. Why should I keep such a beautiful and good girl always in sorrow?? If I'm doing so, I will be doing great wrong doing and injustice to such a nice sheep. All my life I will have to live with guilt and gut feeling. I am sure that I can live without her without any problem or what so ever , but what about her?  Now She can't think of a life without me! But if she still living with me, I can't offer her a happy life and throughout the life she will be in great sorrow. I will survive because of my busy activities. So its the best thing to break up. That will be fine for both of us. But she can't accept the fact. She will be shocked on hearing this. But its the best thing"

He came out of the cave and went out somewhere. When she saw him going away without telling a word, she concluded that he no longer love her. After some hours later he came back and without any introduction he threatened her that if she lived some more days  with him, he would hunt her down and kill her. He told her that he was getting hungry and one day he would kill her. So he told her to run away from his sight. But she told him that she would still be happy if he killed her. And she loved him so much, she added. Lion knew she was saying all these things sincerely, but for happiness in her life he felt she should go and he felt  it was necessary . But he insisted her running away and pushed her away and told her angrily that he never loved her and his feeling was compassion and compassion only. And again threatened to go away. And he roared in such a great voice that the whole Jungle trembled. She never saw him so angry and was frightened and in his next push she started to walk down the valley with tears in her eyes. She walked and and walked without knowing what had happened to her true love. She didn't even knew where to go. But when she reached the end of the valley, she was surprised to see a group of sheep waiting for someone.

Back in his cave, sat the lion with broken heart, but with a good feeling of saving one's life.

A Bird...

A few minutes before, it was raining heavily. I was standing in the balcony and enjoying the rain.
Well there is some beauty in rain to enjoy!!

After sometimes, when it all came to an end, I saw a small bird sitting in a tree branch.
What is so peculiar about it??!

Well, yeah... there is nothing much peculiar about such a day to day, common thing, unless we give some thought over it.

My thoughts ran like these..

The bird simply sitting in the branch. It does not appear to have some great goal in life, no purpose of life, not craving for attention .... It simply seeks to have a small, modest nest. It just need the sufficient amount of food for that day only. I do not know, weather it is jealous of other birds, animals or something else...
It leads a modest, simple life without seeking for a position, without seeking for power, without searching for recognition and admiration...

But what about man??!
He is always in search of more. And For him more is less.

When we understand the so called real truth of life.. competition, conflicts everything is a real wastage of energy.. But can we live a life like a bird?? I think no. Because the society has conditioned our mind in certain way so that 'life of a bird' has became a purposeless one as far as we are concerned.

I am confused... what to follow..where it will lead...
So I devised a simple solution. Go with the Flow.. How pathetic !!!!!

ഒരു കണ്ണൂര്‍ സ്പെഷല്‍..........

“ ശ്ശൊ.. എല്ലാ കാര്യവും ഞാന്‍ തന്നെ ചെയ്യണംന്ന് വെച്ചാ ന്താ ചെയ്യാ??! ഇവനൊക്കെ ഒന്നെ ആ‍ ഫോണെറ്റുത്താ എന്താ ആവ്വാ? അതെങ്ങിനെയാ.. ഞാനൊരുത്തിയുണ്ടല്ലൊ എല്ലാം ചെയ്യാന്‍.. ഞാനെന്താ യന്ത്രൊ മട്ടൊ ആണൊ എല്ലാം ഇങ്ങനെ ചെയ്യാന്‍?! ഞനൊരിക്കല്‍ കിടന്നുപൊയാല്‍ മനസിലാവും ഇവര്‍ക്കൊക്കെ..” രാവിലെ തന്നെ പിരകിലുളള പച്ചക്കറി തോട്ടത്തിലെക്ക് പൊയ ശ്രീമാനെയും ഒന്നും കൂസാതെ ഉറങ്ങുന്ന മക്കളെയും പഴിച്ചു കൊണ്ട് അവള്‍ അടുക്കളയില്‍ നിന്നും ഫോണിനടുത്തെക്ക് നടന്നു. ഇത്ര രാവിലെ തന്നെ ഫോണ്‍ ചെയ്ത് ബുദ്ധിമുട്ടിക്കുന്നവനും കിട്ടി പ്രാക്, മനസില്‍.

“ ഹെല്ലൊ “

“ഹലോ റ്റീച്ചര്‍?. ടീച്ചറുടെ ഫോട്ടൊയല്ലെ ഇന്നത്തെ പേപ്പറിലുള്ളത്?? “

“ എന്താ??......... “

“ ഞങ്ങളെയൊക്കെ ഉപദേശിച്ചിട്ട് ടീച്ചര്‍ ഇങ്ങനെയൊക്കെ ചെറ്യ്തത് മോശമായിപ്പൊയി ടീച്ചര്‍..”

“എന്താ മോളെ ? ഫോട്ടോയൊ?? പേപ്പറിലോ?? എന്താ.. ഞാനറിഞ്ഞില്ല..”

“ടീച്ചര്‍ക്കും കള്ളവൊട്ടുണ്ടല്ലെ. കള്ളവൊട്ടുകാരുടെ കൂടെ ടീച്ചറുടെ ഫോട്ടൊയും കണ്ടല്ലൊ. എന്തിനാ ടീചര്‍ ഇങ്ങനെയൊക്കെ? ഞാനൊരിക്കലും വിചാരിച്ചില്ല റ്റീച്ചറും ഇങ്ങനെയൊക്കെ ചെയ്യൂന്ന് “

“കള്ളവൊട്ടോ???? ഞാനൊ??”

ഒന്നും മനസിലാകാതെ പരിഭ്രമത്തൊടേ അവള്‍ ഫോണ്‍ കട്ട് ചെയ്ത് പേപ്പറിനായി മുറ്റത്തെക്കെ കുതിച്ചു. അതവിടെ പടിയില്‍ തന്നെ കിടക്കുന്നുണ്ടായിരുന്നു. ധ്രുതിയില്‍ പേപ്പറേടുത്ത് നിവര്‍ത്തി. ആ കാഴ്ച കണ്ട് അവള്‍ ഒന്ന് പകച്ചു പൊയി. ത്ന്ടെ ഫോട്ടൊ!!! വോട്ടര്‍ പട്ടികയിലുള്ള ഫോട്ടൊ! അതും മുന്‍ പേജില്‍ തന്നെ.കൂടെ കുറച്ച് പുരുഷ വോട്ടര്‍മാരുടെ ഫോട്ടൊയും.

എതൊക്കെയൊ സിന്‍ഡിക്കെറ്റിണ്ടെയും ലോബിയുടെയുമൊക്കെ ഭാഗമായി ഇല്ലാത്ത ആള്‍ക്കരുടെയും സ്ഥലത്തിന്ടേയുമൊക്കെ അവകാശികളായ കുറച്ച് പേരുടെ ഫോട്ടൊയും കൂടെ വാര്‍ത്തയും..അതില്‍ അവളും ഉള്‍പ്പെട്ടിരിക്കുന്നു..എങ്ങിനെ എന്ത് എന്നൊന്നും ചിന്തിക്കാന്‍ അവള്‍ക്കു കഴിഞ്ഞില്ല..

“നിരപരാധിയായ ഞാനും ഇക്കൂട്ടരുടെ കൂടെ എങ്ങനെ പെട്ടു??!”

അകത്ത് നിന്നും ഫോണിണ്ടെ മണിനാദം മുഴങ്ങുന്നു.. അവള്‍ക്കു കാര്യം മനസിലായി. വാര്‍ത്ത കണ്ടേ പരിചയക്കാരാരെങ്കിലും വിളിക്കുന്നതായിരിക്കും..ഫോണെടുക്കാതെ അവള്‍ പുറത്തിരങ്ങി ഭര്‍ത്തവിന്ടെ അടുത്തെക്കു ഓടി.എന്നിട്ട് പത്രം വച്ചു നീട്ടി. ഫോട്ടൊ കണ്ടെ അയാളും ഒന്ന് ഞെട്ടി. പിന്നീട് വിശദമായിത്തന്നെ വാര്‍ത്ത വായിച്ചു, ഒരു പരിശോദനയും നടത്തി. എന്നിട്ട് തന്നെ ചിരിക്കാ തുടങ്ങി. അവള്‍ക്കു കാര്യമൊന്നും മനസിലായില്ല. എങ്ങനെ മനസിലാവാനാണ്? ചിന്തകള്‍ക്ക് നെരെ സഞ്ചരിക്കാന്‍ കഴിറ്യെടെ?!

അയാള്‍ സമാധാനത്തില്‍ കാര്യങ്ങല്‍ വിശദമാക്കിക്കൊടുത്തു.

വോട്ടര്‍ പട്ടികയില്‍ അവളുടേ അടുത്തടുത്തുള്ള രണ്ട് മൂന്ന് വൊട്ടര്‍മാര്‍ അത്ര നല്ലവരായ വോട്ടര്‍മാരായിരുന്നില്ല. എതൊക്കെയൊ രാഷ്ടീയതാല്പര്യങ്ങളുടേ കൂട്ടളികല്‍ ആയിരുന്നു. പത്രമാധ്യമങ്ങള്‍ രഷ്ട്രീയപോരാട്ടങ്ങള്‍ പരസ്പരം നടത്തുമ്പോഴും വാര്‍ത്തകല്‍ ആഘൊഷിക്കുമ്പോഴും നിര്‍ഭാഗ്യവശാല്‍ പെട്ടു പോകുന്ന നിരപരധികളില്‍ ഒരുവളാകുകയാരുന്നു അവള്‍. എന്തായാലും പ്രത്യെകിച്ച് ഒരു ചെലവും ഇല്ലാതെ ഒരു സുപ്രഭാതതില്‍ പ്രശസ്തയായതിണ്ടെ ത്രില്ലില്‍ ആയിരുന്നു അപ്പൊള്‍ അവള്‍. വീട്ടിലെ ഫോണ്‍ അപ്പൊഴും നിര്‍ത്താതെ ശബ്ദിക്കുന്നുണ്ടായിരുന്നു.

Decisions..............

Decisions are very crucial in one's life. Crucial decisions concerning our lives can potentially make or break our lives. When making or taking the so called 'crucial life related decisions', its a kind of gambling. Only one thing can ever tell whether our decisions were a good one or bad, and that thing is 'TIME'.

It may sometimes take a couple of seconds or sometimes a couple of minutes or some days, weeks or even months and years for the justification of our decisions. We can only say whether our decisions were right or wrong on that day, on which the end result of our decision shown to us. On that day we have got two choices depending upon the result. One is to rejoice on taking the right decision and next is to regret on that wrong decision.

If the climax is good, we ca boast of our taking good decision, we can go on talking over our presence of mind and so on. But after the long waiting when our decisions turned out to be a bad one, what can we do? Regret about it? Here in this situation we have got our third choice.

Some may feel that the third choice is, not regretting on our decisions, by quoting “its part of my destiny”. But I feel that it is not a good practice to put all the blame on destiny and giving destiny all the responsibility of our decisions.

The third choice is of course “not regretting” on our decisions, but never give destiny a role to play in your 'decision making drama'. It may be a good ending or bad ending one, but we are the lead actors in the drama. So take full responsibility of your decisions and move ahead with optimism.

When there is positive energy like optimism, miracles can happen. If we are moving ahead with optimism, we can see the so called 'wrong decision' as some kind of opportunity. We can learn from it, and we assume that its not the end; not the end of the drama; the present situation is not the end result of our decision. There is still lot to go to reach the result. And from that point, with that belief, we can still work on our past decision and eventually it will turn out to be a good decision.

So when our life is mixed with optimism and filled with faith and positive energy, there will be no such things known as bad decision or bad experiences. Even though it may appear here and there in life, understand that it is not the ultimate result. Things gonna turn around. The ultimate result will only be success, happiness and joy. So enjoy your life with optimism.

Numbers....

Numbers... how simple and cute they are..!

0,1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9 Only ten 'things'. Easy to learn, easy to remember.. Not a jargon at all..

Our day to day life is so interlinked with it.. and cant live a day with out using them in some form or other...

When we felt lonely, we punch in some number in our mobile phone...

we may type some message..Here Numbers are doing the job for us...

Numbers can make us happy, it can make us sad..it can make us laught and even cry..

When some a student gets higher number as their marks in any exam..it makes him/her happy..

While someone gets higher number as their rank..it makes them sad..

When someone gets higher number as money.. he is obviously happy..

When it is all about his debt.. he is the sad person..

when some number in certain order appears...it makes us happy..

If somebody is checking the results of a lottery draw..

and the number matches...!!!

So numbers are capable of causing even a heart attack..!

If you gave some exams ... and your roll number appeared.. you are a happy man..

You are eagerly looking for the free limit of your broadband plan..

You are tuning into some radio station...

You are flicking the channel using your remote controller..

Numbers are everywhere...

Without your permission, you are getting older and older..

Your age is shown by numbers..

The days you lived in this world is shown by numbers..

The coming days are shown by numbers..

Past..Present..Future..Eeverything is represented by numbers..

The whole world.. Each day.. Each minute and even each micro or nano seconds are counted using numbers...

If you misrepresent any number or change the order it can make a big difference..

In your exam, if you enterd the wrong number.. everything is gone.. you need not have to write the exam..

If you punch one different number while you callin someone..you will reach someone else..

If you change the number of your vehicle's number plate..you can be a criminal..!

If you add an extra 'zero' it can make a differnce of 1 lac and 10 lac..

A simple representation of number caused a lots of problem during the start of this century.. The Y2K problem..

Everything in this world..however small it might be.. how irrelevent it seems to us..(may be due to our repeated usage)...all have its own importance..

Thank you ' calendar ' for teaching me this lesson.. ;)

Placement diaries - 4 [ Infosys ]

It was the first placemnt in our college for our batch. And there comes the giant..infy..

Everobody was excited and all those who have cleared infy's criterion prepared for it.

We also worked hard, not by preparing with quanti books and al.. We were a group of 6 member...great friend.. and two of them where the main part of our colege's placement cell...and i was also happened to be a very enthusiastic, active meber of that team.. So we have to prepare the wholw scenario as per the recruiting people's wish. they wanted this much of chair, tables , desks, becghes etc in each class room..they have got the best in the class menu for their lunch..tea and al. We need to arrange all these thing.. we need to consider the candidates food and seating..and the registration...there are looots of stuffs behind the scenes related to a placement drive.. we were unaware of it till we started indulged in it..

So the day before the D-day we were all at our college..spending our time and energy to arrange everything.. In order to fulfil the requirement we had to carry desks and beches from a one floor to another floor.. and how the hell it all weighed only we knew..

After that we went to order food for the next day..printed out many forms and posters.. cleared the table..cleaned the room..the plates... and little bit of beautification of the room intended for interview..

When we finished all these the time was almost 6 'o clock in the evening.. And we have a 'life changing exam to give ' the next day morning.. So far prepared nothing.. But still time was there, but how about energy??!!!

Well then came a call from one of our friends that he was also attending the exam the next day and he was coming to our place. So we have to make arrangements for his accomodation at our place. So he came.. we found him out from the bus stand.. and aftr food and all we reached at our hostel.. by that time there was little energy saved in me to learn anything new.. so didnt give it a try..and went to bed. Then the student coordinator of the placement cell...my friend..my room mate.. told me to call him up early in the morning.. coz he wanted to receive the recruiting people from the hotel where they were staying.. As he was not that good a waking up early in the morning..the duty of waking him up in hte morning was also on my shoulders.. so with that things in mind..setting the mobile alarm at that specific time..i touched the bed and slept....

It was the d-day.. Started the day very early.. Woke my friend up..then after sometimes an Innova came to our hostel and he left to the hotel. So then I have to start to the collge early as the key of the placement cell was with me that day.. the sooner i started to college.. Reached there and found two other members there. And started the works for that day..

We opened the registratin counter..set up the bench and desk.. set up the projector and mic for the PPT..

By 9.30 the big people came by the same innova.. We greeted them and by 10'o clock the whole process got its life.. The PPT started.. after that there was the aptitude exam. As i have to attend in the exam i 'resigned' from the duty and got into my seat..we filled up some application forms.. and aftr we gave the exam..

After exam it was the time for luch.. We have to provide food for both the participant and the intervieving people. By that time results would be pubished and those who got short listed must had to attend the hr interview..

We have no role in checking the answers as it might lead to some unnecessary talk.. So the whole responsibility was on our juniours..

After a while the results got published.. Wel i have nothing going through my mind that time.Coz i was unsure of my clearing of that exam as i dint prepare anything for it..

But to my astonishment My name was also there along with other fortunate people.. Well one other girl also got through the exam.she was also there with us as a part of the placemnt cell through out the previous day.. like me she might also dint get any chance to prepare for the exam...

Well then came the time for interview.. I wasn't prepared for this interview either... just like the other siuations.. i borrowed the shoes..and with that i jus started waiting for my turn to turn up...

And at last it came.. it was rather a simple interview..may be the fiirst interview in which i spoke something.... he asked me about myself,family,hobbies,,,etc etc.. and my resume guided him... and haappily i came out from the room and joined my 'team placement '

Its the time of the most exciting waiting...waiting for the results of interview... Jus like anyone else i was also anxious about the intervies..

it was alsmost complete one and half hours we sat in a room expecting our results.. the boys and girsl..the only sound was their gasping.. The results were highly confidential matter..so no one in our team could sneak into it...

And to end all of our anxiety...the results came.. again i have to believe that it wasnt a dream and its reality that i have jus got placed with infy...My name was also ther.. i was hapy...my friends were happy..and everyone those who got placed were happy...and there were not too many people who dint get..most of them cleared the interview.. bcoz that was infy...may be....!!

well i am haapy.. but our duties were still not over...we have to do many works even after the placemnt drive..like doing reverse of what we had done earlier in the morning...!!! setting up everything back into their original state..;) !!!!

well later that night we had a blast... we all partied... and shared the joy...!!!

thats something about my first placement.. but story still continues.. ;)

Placement diaries - 3 [Syntel]

Suddenly one day one of the placement coordinators of our college, who happen to be one of my nearest friends ( well our group of 6, including me were active members of our placement team and 2 of them were the coordinators ) told me that there was another placement drive, and the company name is Syntel. Well just like IBS I have no idea of this company also, and a perfect stranger as far as this company was concerned and that was the first occasion I was hearing about such a company.

Well don't you want to know about the venue of the placement drive??!! Its our favorite Munnar, 382km away.. yes the same place where the whole Wipro thing was happened.

Well this time I was little bit more confident than before, 'coz I could clear the aapti at Wipro. So this time I did great research on the company, studied about the company, notes were made, coined new words for the interview. Well one such word was 'jithinnovation'. They were already using a word 'syntellovation' to indicate their innovative approach. Well that word was to indicate my innovation!!!

Well I was almost certain that I will clear the aptitude test and obviously next hurdle was the interview. Even though interview is a kind of one on one talk, still people attending interview always feared it, well I am no exception to this.

Thus I prepared very hard for Syntel eventhough it was a newly introduced word in my active vocabulary.

And on another sudden occassion our same placement coordinator told me that mechanical engineering students could not attend the interview. Being a great mechiee I was unfortunate to attend it. What a happy news that was!!!

That was the story about my third attempt!!!
story still continues.....

placement diaries - 2 [Wipro]

This is definitely one of the unforgettable event in my life. This placement drive was held at Munnar, around 380 km away from my hometown. Most exciting part according to me as far as this placement drive is concerned is, even now my parents didn't know that i had attended such a placement. I dont know why i didnt tell, well simply didnt tell. thats it.

Well here also some eight to ten friends were with me. We made all arrangements for our stay with a friend's friends. That guy was studying at that college and staying at a rented house along with other guys. So stay , food nothing was a problem, we only wanted to perform well in our exam.

Well this time, I was even more prepared. I had done some research on the company, made a tailor made resume especially for Wipro like " I would like to apply my thoughts for the betterment of some world class company.... " like that. And one more thing, I also bought an Aggrawal!!

Well that was a nice college and nicer was the environment out there. Well guys its Munnar!! One of the top tourist spots in kerala. The college was like fully air conditioned, centralized Ac complex.

On the D-day , we reached the college within the time and got ourselves registered by paying the registration fee and 'accomplished' the food coupon. And time for the pre placement talk. It was just as the usual thing...our company..our company..etc etc.

And here comes the 'APTI'. Nothing was in my mind, just gave it and waited for the results to be announced.
Oh man!! I was in the list of people who went through the apti.
I made a progress man..;)
Some other friends were also got selected, but could see some sad faces as well.

Well the next item in store for me was the tech interview- Yes the Technical Interview. Questions from c, C++ etc were expected to ask for tech interview for software development companies like wipro. Well during the two years of my +2 life i learned c++ and SQL. So tech interview wasnt a nightmare for me.

But you know there are some 'etiquettes' for this interview thingy, -executive dressing, shoes,tie etc etc. As I was not sure of clearing the apti , i wasnt prepared with all these 'interview equipments'. Friend in need is a friend indeed. I was lucky to have such friends and one such friend helped me by giving his shoes.
And thus I am fully prepared for the tech interview.

I was along with many others made to wait outside a room where interview was going to take place. I really don't like to wait. Thats really a kind of tense moments. Finally my turn came and I entered the room after the usual " may i get in sir" question and then greeted him and took my seat when i was asked to.

Initially some simple techical related questions were asked and i gave the answers. then he asked the following question. " there is one helicopter, 2 people , one other and you and only one parachute. what will you do if copter crashes??" I asked the question to myself and I thought i cannot be that much selfish ,i am playing with someone else life which i have to value more than mine, so i would have let the other person to escape. I could related this situation with some of my past experiences. So i said I will let the other guy to use the parachute.
Then he asked another question : there are one jobs, two applicant, other guy and you(obviously). You got the job. Will you give your job to him??
Again i started to think and i thought i got this job because of my hard work, why should i hand it over to an undeserved guy and i just told him what i felt.
Then he told me that I was contradicting myself. May be you guys also think so, but I am sure that I was true to my heart. I know that you guys may have some problem in accepting my view, but i just followed what my heart said and stick with that. And he asked some other personal matters and the interview was over.

i got the result of the interview unofficially from one of the placement coordinators when i left the room. She told me that if you are selected, you will be given a form to fill in for the next HR interview. As i was not in possession of that invaluable thing i was not selected. Well I was rejected in a tech interview simply asking some HR questions. I was really angry over this, but who cares!!

When i started searching for my other friends I saw a happy face. He gave the interview very well, he answered most of the questions well, and even wrote c program. So he was sure that he would clear the tech interview. then i told him about the 'form' that was given to the 'clear people'. When he heard this his face became dull and he also became angry like me. I shared my story with him, not in a serious tone but in a lighter tone. That carried his sadness away and we as a team started to search for other guys.

Only three or four got the tech cleared and they were busy filling the 'form'. We wished them 'all the best' and started to wander through the garden and hills nearby, savoring the beauty of munnar. Well we decided to enjoy the trip as at least like a tour.
At the end we came to know that only one person got selected for the job from our team. ie from around 10 people. After a 300-400kms of journey only 1 was lucky enough to be placed in wipro!!!

Well some of us decided to stay back there one more day and to have a blast. But many other people were not willing to stay anymore minute there, may be because of their mood at that time. So we changed our plan and decided to return to home.

The return journey was even memorable. Most of the people vomit in the bus(some exception- 3 guys including me!!!)
Well thats how my second placement attempt over..
story continues......

placement diaries - 1 [IBS]

Well just like any other student i was also looking forward for my campus placements, to get into some company and to secure my life(!) Well by the month of February, when i was fastly approaching the end of my 3rd year, the placement season starts to blossom. Some companies start to come to nearby colleges for placement drive. As our placement coordinators gave a later date, so forms will visit our college as late as April or so depending upon our exam dates etc.

As we were all excited about our first placement attempt , all us those who met the 70% criterion decided to attend it. Well the company name was IBS. Frankly I have nt heard that name before, but who cares!! We all prepared for it. Started preparing resumes.

Well preparing resumes is a kind of funny thing. Some three or four people will prepare their resume and all other 'not that keen' guys will simply replace their name and address and some 'must be replaced' kind of data like parents' name etc. . Thats all!! Their hobbies, activities, achievements everything will be the same.!!!

That was a two day placement drive. In the first day there will be aptitude test and those who clear the aptitude test have to attend the interview on the next day.

For most of the people , they will realize something was an opportunity when it just passes by them. Count me in that category. some of the people were started preparing for the D-day. They bought Aggrawal for 'Quanti' and all.. I just make fun of them and simply enjoyed my life!!!

The day has finally arrived. The place where the eight world wonder was about to take place was near my home. So some two three friends stayed at my home. On the D-day in the morning, by 7.30, we left to our place of interest. We reached there. Then saw too many similar people running here and thee for many purposes. Then some kind of feeling started to creep in. Don't know its name[hey not love n all..;)] May be a kind of fear, inferiority or what evear. I told you I don't know its name..
Well then heard a news that we need some more copies of our resume. So we also started to run here and there. And after all kinds of rituals like registration, remitting the fee etc we got settled.

Then started the PPT [pre placement talk] of the company, briefing about the salary, perks, working environment etc etc etc...

After that instructions were given to us to go to various classes for writing the 'apti'. Got the question paper. I was confident that i can crack it, because its all about common sense and a bit of mathematics, arithmetic and all ; but that wasn't the scene. I could do something easily (most of others could also) and for some other i ponder over it and without my knowledge and permission time flew away and lots of areas unaffected by pencil remain in my answer book.

Lunch was provided by the college. After the lunch, results will be announced. During the lunch time, I came across many of my old friends. well leave all those things. After the lunch, results announced. Many of my friends went through the apti, but not me. Well in my first attempt , i lost.

The next day- interview day. obviously i have nothing to do with that. But the other guys who were staying at my home, all of them cleared the apti , so have something to do with that. As they are not familiar with the place i also escorted them. And one more thing, all of them got placed with IBS!!

Well thats how my first placement attempt ended.
I was looking for my next chance....
so story continues..........

IAF EKT Question paper

hi all..
here is the questions that were asked for Indian Air Force , Engineering knowledge test held on April 26th. It is intended for Mechanical engineering stream aspirants.

There may be some variations in the questions because the accuracy of questions depends on my memory power!! ;)
I could not remember all questions correctly and also the multiple choices.
please forgive me.


Questions

General Engineering


1. what does the symbol "j" represents in vector
2. Sulphation in Lead acid battery...
3. Transient current....
4. Principle of hydrogen bomb
5. radio activity is the property of...
6. above curie temperature, magnetic material will become......
7. series circuit current
8. byte= ___ bits
9. Control and arithmetic logic section is known as...
10.Micro computer is a computer...
11.power factor of a resistor..
12.hexadecimal digit..
13.fluorescent tube related qn.
14.change in dimension during the process of magnetisation..
15.in nuclear reaction , conservation of...........
16.unit of inductance..
17.petrol in india ..octane no.?
18.controlling device for small load?? [related to servo motor etc.]
19.viscosity of gas directly proportional to...
20.instruments to have wide range of scale..[related to exponential or linear scale etc.]
21.rating of electrolytic capacitor..
22.name of electric motor-both rotor and stator rotating at equal speed.
23.in reversible adiabatic process, change in entropy?
24.calory is a measure of??
25.compressed air inside a tire, what will happen if air passes through a hole??
26.work done in adiabatic change in gas..
27. related to carnot cycle in carnot engine
28.maximum efficiency of carnot engine
29.something related to mix of ice and water.
30.efficiency of otto cycle
31.floating battery bus or something..
32.longitudinal wave prorogation
33.unexcited single phase synchronous motor.
34.inductance ralted question
35.cylinder pressure, if height = 1/3 rd radius, then % of heat used to increase internal energy.

Mechanical engineering section

[the related topic are given here as i'm unsure of the exact questions.]

1. Gantt chart
2. work study
3. break even analysis
4. a box in operation chart represent what?
5. thermal expansion vale..
6. chip formation
7. tool wear
8. rake angle
9. lathes
10.theory of machines connected with what?
11.pairs
12.links
13.hooks joint
14.idler pulley
15.kinematics
16.COP
17.refrigeration
18.fatigue
19.creep
20.arc welding
21.butt weld
22.coating electrode
23.non contact electrode
24.adiabatic work
25.brayton cycle
26.surface tension
27.4 stroke
28. top dead centre
29.isothermal process
30.basis of heat transfer

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