Decisions..............

Decisions are very crucial in one's life. Crucial decisions concerning our lives can potentially make or break our lives. When making or taking the so called 'crucial life related decisions', its a kind of gambling. Only one thing can ever tell whether our decisions were a good one or bad, and that thing is 'TIME'.

It may sometimes take a couple of seconds or sometimes a couple of minutes or some days, weeks or even months and years for the justification of our decisions. We can only say whether our decisions were right or wrong on that day, on which the end result of our decision shown to us. On that day we have got two choices depending upon the result. One is to rejoice on taking the right decision and next is to regret on that wrong decision.

If the climax is good, we ca boast of our taking good decision, we can go on talking over our presence of mind and so on. But after the long waiting when our decisions turned out to be a bad one, what can we do? Regret about it? Here in this situation we have got our third choice.

Some may feel that the third choice is, not regretting on our decisions, by quoting “its part of my destiny”. But I feel that it is not a good practice to put all the blame on destiny and giving destiny all the responsibility of our decisions.

The third choice is of course “not regretting” on our decisions, but never give destiny a role to play in your 'decision making drama'. It may be a good ending or bad ending one, but we are the lead actors in the drama. So take full responsibility of your decisions and move ahead with optimism.

When there is positive energy like optimism, miracles can happen. If we are moving ahead with optimism, we can see the so called 'wrong decision' as some kind of opportunity. We can learn from it, and we assume that its not the end; not the end of the drama; the present situation is not the end result of our decision. There is still lot to go to reach the result. And from that point, with that belief, we can still work on our past decision and eventually it will turn out to be a good decision.

So when our life is mixed with optimism and filled with faith and positive energy, there will be no such things known as bad decision or bad experiences. Even though it may appear here and there in life, understand that it is not the ultimate result. Things gonna turn around. The ultimate result will only be success, happiness and joy. So enjoy your life with optimism.